6 Things Women Cyclists Are Tired of Hearing

​Many women who cycle regularly are familiar with a particular type of comment. It often comes in the form of unsolicited advice, casual remarks about their bike setup, or “helpful” observations about how they ride.

At first, these comments may seem harmless or even amusing. Over time, however, they become repetitive and frustrating. Most female cyclists know exactly what they are doing and do not need constant commentary about their equipment, speed, or appearance.

Cycling is supposed to be simple. You get on a bike and ride. Yet women in the cycling community are still frequently confronted with remarks that question their competence or treat them differently from male riders.

Here are six things female cyclists are particularly tired of hearing.

​1. “You Need to Raise or Lower Your Saddle”

​One of the most common unsolicited pieces of advice concerns saddle height. Someone notices a rider’s bike position and immediately suggests that the saddle should be higher or lower.

Unless someone specifically asks for input, this kind of advice is rarely welcome. Proper bike fitting is a specialized skill, and riders who want professional guidance usually consult a trained bike fitter.

Many cyclists have already experimented with their setup and adjusted it based on their own comfort and riding style. If a rider is comfortable and riding without problems, there is little reason to comment on their saddle position.

In short, if advice has not been requested, it is better to keep it to yourself.

​2. “You Need a Different Size Bike”

​Another frequent remark involves bike sizing. Observers may assume that a rider’s frame is too large or too small and feel compelled to point it out.

However, bike fit is personal and depends on many factors, including riding style, flexibility, and individual preference. A bike that looks slightly unusual to someone else may feel perfectly comfortable to the rider.

Most cyclists are capable of researching sizing guides, visiting bike shops, or consulting experts if they need assistance. If a rider has not mentioned discomfort, there is usually no reason to offer unsolicited opinions.

​3. “You’re Fast… For a Woman”

​This comment is often intended as a compliment, but it rarely feels like one.

Adding “for a woman” to a statement about speed or performance subtly implies that women are expected to be slower. It turns what could be a straightforward compliment into a comparison based on gender.

Cyclists ride at many different speeds, for many different reasons. Some ride competitively, others ride for fitness, and many simply ride for enjoyment. None of these require validation based on someone else’s expectations.

A simple “you’re fast” would be more than enough.

​4. “You Should Change Gear”

​Gear selection is another area where unsolicited advice frequently appears. Riders are sometimes told they should shift gears, pedal differently, or adjust their cadence.

But cycling technique varies widely. Some riders prefer higher cadence, others prefer pushing harder gears. What matters most is whether the rider feels comfortable and in control.

Like most aspects of cycling, gear choice is a personal decision. If someone wants guidance, they will usually ask for it or look for information themselves.

​5. Comments About Body Type

​Cycling should never invite commentary about someone’s body. Yet female cyclists often hear remarks about their legs, weight, or physical build.

Comments about appearance, muscle tone, or body composition quickly shift the focus away from the activity itself. Instead of celebrating the sport, they turn attention toward aesthetics and physical judgment.

Bodies come in all shapes and sizes, and none of them determine whether someone belongs on a bike. Cycling is for everyone.

​6. “You Can’t Wear That While Riding”

​Clothing choices are another surprisingly common source of commentary. Whether someone is wearing lycra, casual clothes, a skirt, or waterproof gear, someone else may feel the need to point out that it is “not appropriate” for cycling.

In reality, people ride in all kinds of clothing depending on the situation. Commuters, recreational riders, and athletes all dress differently.

What matters most is comfort and practicality for the rider. Cycling does not require a strict uniform, and personal style is part of the freedom that makes riding enjoyable.

​A Simple Rule

​There is a simple way to avoid making these kinds of comments.

Offer advice only when someone asks for it. Avoid commenting on people’s bodies. Focus on supporting and encouraging others who enjoy cycling.

Small remarks can have a bigger impact than people realize. Creating a welcoming cycling culture means respecting that every rider has their own experience, preferences, and reasons for being on a bike.